*Need Some Advice*

Okay here goes:
I like a girl at my school real bad, i was just about to ask her out as well. But now her best friend has asked me out, but i dont like her that way, just as a friend. So what do i do? Should i still ask the girl out? Or will she say no even if she likes me because of her mate? Things are a bit messy right now! Thanks for any advice
Mika19b

dip your wick mate.

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Lol what u mean? Also the girl i like wants to talk 2 me on msn later so maybe i will get lucky

Bloody hell, we're a sorry lot on GPG with relationship problems!

I'd go for your gut instinct. If you really really like this girl, but somebody else has asked you out, politely and tactfully turn her down, saying you're into someone else at the moment, but only after you've gone ahead with asking the other girl on MSN.

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Thats a sticky situation indeed!!
But being best friends, and being girls, do you think the girl you like knows that her friend likes you??

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"Trulli was slowing down like he wanted to have a picnic" LOL

I kinda have a similar situation in which my friend, Robert, likes my other friend Giselle. She doesn't like him, but he likes her. However, she likes me, I'm not really that enthusiastic at the idea of dating her.

So, if you follow my friends actions, ask out the one you like anyways.

If that makes sense.

Thanks for the comments guys i will just have to wait and see!

-Mikey- Wrote:
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> She doesn't like him, but he likes her.



See this is a common misconception. When guys want some girl, they think in the pattern "what would works for themselves works for her", without realizing that men and women are attracted to completely different things (unless they are gay of course)!

Liking someone and feeling attracted to them are NOT the same thing!

So when the guy goes about getting the girl to "like" him, and succeeds, then when he makes his move, she responds with "Let's just be friends"... why would she say anything else? She likes him, but doesn't feel any kind of attraction.

Now if you drop the "getting her to like you" part and cruise straight for "attraction", she might think you are a horrible person, and she might actually outright resent you, but she will hang out with you and do you anyway.

This is where all the stories of nice guys and jerks stem from. Go figure!

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 02/05/2007 07:56PM by Morbid.

Edit: This was completely unsuitable and to be honest, pathetic and disgusting. Stop living you life between your legs, at least on here anyway.



Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 02/06/2007 01:22AM by Willb.

tasteful. I really wish I had your way with women..... :P



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Wow. I mean, wow.

TEACH ME.

Or, actually, maybe not.

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mika19b Wrote:
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> Okay here goes:
> I like a girl at my school real bad, i was just
> about to ask her out as well. But now her best
> friend has asked me out, but i dont like her that
> way, just as a friend. So what do i do? Should i
> still ask the girl out? Or will she say no even if
> she likes me because of her mate? Things are a bit
> messy right now! Thanks for any advice
> Mika19b

Well date both of them...who knows, you could either get very lucky or castrated.

Covfan Wrote:
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> I don't need no good advice, I'm already wasted.


Is your other life Cold and complicated?




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