And I quote:
"People, In order to disable Loadqm.exe permenantly, click "Start", then "Run", Then Type "Msconfig" [without the quots], Then choose "Startup" From the top menu, Then Search for the Loadqm.exe file in the list, Then UNcheck the Box on it's left, Then click "Ok", It will ask you to restart the computer, After restart a message will pop up and say that u are running in.....etc , click on don't show me this message again then........ ur done. To check if it was permenantly removed, click "Alt+Ctrl+Del", REMEMBER:-- Every time MSN Massenger is updated to later versions it will put that file back on the "Startup" list, so make sure to remove it again. Over and out! ur welcome. "