Dear mate,
the first thing I have to say is that..completely realism in GP4 will be never possible, and some performances that for certain people can be good, for other people cannot be. With this, I mean that surely my performances cannot assure to all people the same sensations.
But: Ace level and other levels, starting from Pro, are different in bhp values and driver grip, in magics. This means that Performances at Pro level are more easy than at Ace, and bhp are not the same , although perf text is always the same, from ace to rookie level.
Regarding the difference between perf value in race and qualify, I think that driving performance for only one lap, as in qualify, is proportionally higher than a performance divided over all the race ( 70 laps..for example).
Furthermore, car perfomances are implemented in race lowering the fuel quantity.
Therefore, the final balance between car and CPU driver performances in race is well reported, in my opinion, with the difference of perf value, that You said.
But my final conclusion is: nothing is perfect...all can be improved. So, with a right method, everyone can try to do a good set of performances. I never told You my performances are the best...